We Don’t Play Messy Here — We Protect Peace, Safety, and Community

We Don’t Play Messy Here — We Protect Peace, Safety, and Community

In every community, in every city, and in every industry, you will find two types of people:

those who show up with kindness, intention, and purpose… and those who show up messy.

Messy behavior can take many forms — unnecessary negativity, gossip, jealousy, manipulation, or passive-aggressive tactics meant to provoke or intimidate. And the truth is simple: not everyone who walks through your doors is here to heal. Some people come in carrying chaos, and others come in hoping to stir it.

At Modality Life Practice, we lead with peace. We encourage maturity, emotional intelligence, communication, and respect. But peace does not mean passive. Peace does not mean weak. Peace does not mean we tolerate harmful behavior.

And that’s why my tolerance for “messy” is extremely low.

What Is Messy Behavior?

Messy behavior is behavior rooted in insecurity or conflict-seeking energy. It looks like:

• stirring drama where none exists, persistently asking personal questions making others uncomfortable

• attempting to divide people

• showing up in packs with the intention to intimidate

• provoking others and then playing innocent

• making slick comments, spreading stories, or sabotaging

• jealousy disguised as “just asking questions”

• walking into someone’s business with an agenda

I’ve experienced all of it — not only in San Antonio, but around the world. When you’ve lived in different countries, worked in multiple industries, climbed through leadership roles, and met thousands of people… you start to recognize patterns. You see motive. You see intention. You see energy clearly.

And that clarity is why I shut messy behavior down immediately.

Why I Have a Low Tolerance for Negativity

Negativity drains community. It poisons the environment. And in a wellness space — which is sacred — negativity becomes dangerous.

Modality is built on a foundation of:

• healing

• mental clarity

• faith

• community

• safety

• physical wellness

• emotional self-regulation

There is no room for people who come in with projections, jealousy, or hidden motives. When negativity shows up uninvited, it destabilizes the very thing we are building.

And let’s be honest: some negativity isn’t accidental. It’s calculated. Some people come in groups, studying you, mumbling, watching, recording, whispering, hoping to take down what they did not build. They don’t know your story. They don’t know your work ethic. They don’t know your journey. They only react to the light you carry.

But here’s the real truth:

We Don’t Play Messy. We Don’t Entertain Drama. We Call the Police.

Period.

If someone is:

• stalking,

• harassing,

• threatening,

• attempting to intimidate,

• interfering with business operations,

• or causing safety concerns,

we do not “talk it out” with people who came to cause damage. We do not negotiate with chaos. We do not give second chances to people with malicious intent.

We document.

We set boundaries.

We remove access.

We take legal action when needed.

That is professionalism. That is leadership. That is protecting a community.

Peace Is the Priority

I will always encourage peace. Always.

But peace has two sides:

• the calm within, and

• the courage to defend it

A peaceful space does not stay peaceful by accident — it stays peaceful because the leader is strong enough to protect it.

Modality is a sanctuary. A place for healing, progress, and empowerment. We welcome anyone genuinely seeking growth, transformation, and wellness. But we do not welcome chaos, intimidation, or negativity disguised as membership.

The era of letting messy people run wild is over.

At Modality, we lead with:

✨ maturity

✨ accountability

✨ boundaries

✨ professionalism

✨ faith

✨ and a commitment to the safety of our entire community

If you come in peace, you will thrive here.

If you come in messy… you won’t last long.